Dementia’s Silver Stars a few thoughts from Elaine Pereira

I would like to welcome my good friend and fellow author back to Readful Things. Elaine has been doing a tremendous amount of work promoting her book and teaching others about the field of Alzheimer’s research. She is also a very kind person, who has been there for me through my own struggles having a family member who is going through this disease.

If you have ever wondered about what this cruel disease can do to a person, a family and the patient themselves, Elaine’s uniquely personal perspective may very well be of use to you.

You can find out more about Elaine and her book here:

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Dementia’s Silver Stars

Tragically as our Baby Boomer generation matures into the Silver Stars, some of those “stars” don’t shine as brightly as they use to, mostly due to Dementia. Alzheimer’s specifically is a devastating condition that robs us of our loved ones. It’s also allows for some of the most bewildering events, remarks and experiences that defy logic, reasoning and reality.

Since I have literally walked, actually more like trudged, in the shoes of a caregiver to my mother with Alzheimer’s, I am able to share the humor with the heartache; explore the mystifying with the plausible; describe the agitation and the calm.

In my memoir I Will Never Forget-A Daughter’s Story of Her Mother’s Arduous and Humorous Journey Through Dementia, I detail Mom’s heartwarming and inspirational life. The “why I wrote this book” behind-the-scenes background, is almost as interesting as the book itself and is often the case for most authors.

My mother’s is a story that needed to be told. The same woman who graduated with a BS in chemistry in 1945, went on to earn a Masters in Education and taught high school math is the same one who literally could not add 2+2 a few months before she died. As she steadily unraveled piece by piece, her lucid moments waned precariously.

Those of us who have been intimately or peripherally affected by Dementia know all too well how unpredictable the disease manifests itself from one person to the next. Some mysteries in my mom’s journey she took to her grave and will never be revealed.

Just before my mom quit driving, thank God without incident, she actually renewed her car insurance. The abridged version of an intricate and complicated long story, is that she wrote a total of nine checks to her car insurance company because she couldn’t remember writing even one. Five of them were on consecutive days!

Baffling! What warped reality guided her to address five envelopes correctly, put on a stamp, and then drop them successfully into the mail slot five days in a row? How is it possible?

As Mom drifted farther into her own time line, she started having visions of her own mother, my grandmother who died when I was only six years old. Mom was even overheard talking to her “mother.” Mom’s quest to find and “take care of” her mom presumably was the catalyst that drove her to escape her locked assisted living facility like the great Houdini!

How does a petite, 86 year-old woman slip out of her secure home undetected literally in the middle of the night? Mom was found after being outside for more than five hours, in 25-degree temperatures, in very early April, in literally nothing but red flannel pajamas! And lived!

My award-winning memoir is a humble and respectful tribute to my mother and everyone ravaged by Dementia and rendered altered in its wake. I am donating to Alzheimer’s research from book sales and speaking fees in part so that my daughters don’t have to write a book about me one day.

Tesla: Inventor of the Electrical Age by W. Bernard Carlson

Nikola Tesla was a major contributor to the electrical revolution that transformed daily life at the turn of the twentieth century. His inventions, patents, and theoretical work formed the basis of modern AC electricity, and contributed to the development of radio and television. Like his competitor Thomas Edison, Tesla was one of America’s first celebrity scientists, enjoying the company of New York high society and dazzling the likes of Mark Twain with his electrical demonstrations. An astute self-promoter and gifted showman, he cultivated a public image of the eccentric genius. Even at the end of his life when he was living in poverty, Tesla still attracted reporters to his annual birthday interview, regaling them with claims that he had invented a particle-beam weapon capable of bringing down enemy aircraft.

Plenty of biographies glamorize Tesla and his eccentricities, but until now none has carefully examined what, how, and why he invented. In this groundbreaking book, W. Bernard Carlson demystifies the legendary inventor, placing him within the cultural and technological context of his time, and focusing on his inventions themselves as well as the creation and maintenance of his celebrity. Drawing on original documents from Tesla’s private and public life, Carlson shows how he was an “idealist” inventor who sought the perfect experimental realization of a great idea or principle, and who skillfully sold his inventions to the public through mythmaking and illusion.

This major biography sheds new light on Tesla’s visionary approach to invention and the business strategies behind his most important technological breakthroughs.–Description from Goodreads

Hardcover, 520 pages
Expected publication: May 26th 2013
by Princeton University Press (first published May 7th 2013)
0691057761 (ISBN13: 9780691057767)
original title
Tesla: Inventor of the Electrical Age
You can find this book HERE
My Opinion:
Many self-described “Tesla Biographers” have taken a shot at writing a book that would be considered comprehensive and worthy of filling in the gaps of this infamous man’s life, but none have done so as well as W. Bernard Carlson.

If you are expecting a light, fluff-filled read about this important inventor, please look elsewhere. This book is intelligent, articulate and technical. If your desire is to make sense of the how and why Tesla ended up where he did by the end of his life, this book will not only elaborate on common knowledge of the subject, but will open your eyes to the unfortunate truth of this genius and his fall from grace, society and his descent into poverty.

What I found fascinating about this book, was that rather than giving in to the previous biographer’s desire to make Tesla look like a superhuman celebrity with an external muse that produced his creativity, this book shows the rise to fame through his eyes. His inventions are detailed and his numerous ideas and contributions to science and the field of electrical engineering is presented brilliantly. Rather than going from chapter to chapter saying “and then he did this and then he did that” this work has a very natural progression. Frequently using Tesla’s own words to describe his creative process, Tesla: Inventor of the Electrical Age gives a much more in depth view of his life.

I had always thought of Tesla as having been someone who looked within himself to answer the great questions of life, and this book seems to agree with that notion. As someone who is also rather introspective, I appreciated the idea that Tesla turned to his own mind for answers and created his own circumstances for his early success.

If you are the type of history buff that will get lost in an old black and white photo for minutes at a time, marveling at how things have changed, this author has you covered. There are plenty of photos and diagrams in this book of Tesla, his inventions and his previous places of employment. I was intensely drawn to the photo of Edison’s Machine Works and the photo of the inside of the machine shop at Wardenclyffe.

Rather than viewing Nikola Tesla in a celebratory way, this book takes a neutral and impartial stand of the inventor, neither praising nor degrading him for his work nor his decisions. The author has researched and presented material that tells the story of a man from humble beginnings who did many great things, and made some choices that were most regrettable in terms of his own preservation.

After reading this, my opinion is pretty simple. I believe Tesla would be proud of this biography. Perhaps just as proud of this as he would be of the unit of measurement named after him.

While Tesla may not be the household name that Edison has turned out to be, for any serious scholar of the age of invention, he will always be an important contributor to many things that we take for granted as every day convenience today.

I feel this is an important book and one that should be shared with the younger generation. Teachers, parents and anyone who is interested in the history of invention and pioneers of their time would benefit from this book. I thank the author for the hard work and dedication they have shown in writing this.

This review is based on a digital ARC from the publisher.